Why Women Get Laid Easily Than Men?

Women in general hold the most power when it comes to being able to get laid. It is a well-known and well-accepted fact that most women don't even have to initiate a conversation with a man in order to get him interested for a one-nighter. All they have to do is style their hair, put on clothing that flatters them, and the power is all theirs when they enter into a nightclub with an intention of getting laid. Their looks alone can have men noticing and approaching them. But why is it like this? What makes it harder for men to get laid as compared to women?

Following are some reasons women get laid easily than men:

Different Philosophies

In general, most men are interested in casual sex. They don't care whether the women are less attractive than themselves. Men usually view having sex with several women as a 'plus'. Because of this, there is a huge supply of men who are interested in having casual sex as compared to the supply of women who want to do the same. A woman can literally just post online that she would like to have sex, and there will be pile of offers within minutes. On the other hand, if a man posts something like this online, the chances are slim that he will get any offers.

Women Have to Be "Choosier" So They Have More Power When It Comes to Sex

There are different standards for men and women when it comes to sex. Appearance wise, men usually drop their standards to get sex while women have high standards for a man they would want to hook up with. The other primary difference is the reputation one gets when he/she has lots of sexual partners. Men usually get a reputation as a "player" when they have multiple sexual partners while women are stigmatized as sluts or girlfriend-material, etc.

Since having multiple sexual partners will get a woman a bad reputation, they have to be more cautious when it comes to choosing who they have sex with. Men on the other hand, have less reason to limit their sexual partners. Since women have more reason to reject or say "no" to sex, they end up having more power in this regard.

Men Are Less Picky When It Comes to Casual Sex

As mentioned above, women are generally very picky when it comes to having casual sex with someone. Because of this, a man who is looking to have casual sex has to work harder for it. He has to prove to a woman that he is "worthy". Because of this, men are usually less picky when a woman willingly comes along mainly because it happens less often. That's what makes it easier for women to get laid.

Men Almost Always Have to Reach Out

Last but not least, men are the ones who usually have to reach out when looking for casual sex. When a man stops pursuing partner for a one-nighter, his chances of getting laid drop to near zero. It's the opposite for women as they are likely to passively attract a partner.

Final Word

Because of all the above-mentioned reasons and many others, it is no wonder that women get laid easily than men. The only way to "balance this issue" is for people to change their perspective on female sexuality. If women are not judged negatively for having casual sex with multiple partners, then it will be easier for men to find a female partner and get laid.